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世界を見る、暮らしを見る、自分を見る
わからないままなのは、ずっとその中にいるからかもしれません。一度だけ外から見てみる —— まずは夢から。
昨日はどんな夢を見ましたか？
自分を見る
夢を読む
覚えている断片を書き出して、いくつかの角度から読み直します。占いでも診断でもなく、もう一つの見方です。
暮らしを見る
心象図
言葉にならない今の状態を、絵にしてみる。夢の中の景色を描くこともできます。
世界を見る
問いの池
避けて通れない問い —— 人として、そしてものづくりで。ひとつ選んで、自分の状況を持ち込んで話し切りましょう。
最近の問い
What do I actually want?
The hardest question for anyone who grew up doing what was expected. Separate what you want from what you should want.
Why do I care so much what people think of me?
Caring isn't the problem; being steered by it is. Start by checking which of those judgements were ever actually made.
Am I playing someone I'm not?
Wearing different faces for different people is normal. The question is which one won't come off anymore.
Why am I so hard on myself?
Being tough on yourself isn't the same as having standards. Look at whose ruler it is, and what it measures.
Should I live the way my parents expect?
Comply and you resent it; refuse and you feel guilty. It's rarely either-or — it's about a distance both sides can live with.
Do I fix this relationship or end it?
Not deciding is also a decision, usually the expensive one.