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看見世界，看見生活，看見自己
有些事想不明白，是因為一直待在裡面。換個角度看一眼 —— 從一個夢開始。
昨晚夢見什麼了？
看見自己
解夢
寫下記得的片段，換幾個角度讀它。不算命，不下診斷，只是多一種看法。
看見生活
心象圖
此刻是什麼狀態，說不清就畫出來。也可以把夢裡的畫面畫成真的。
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問題池
繞不開的那些問題 —— 做人的，做產品的。挑一個，帶上你的處境聊透它。
問題池裡最近的問題
What do I actually want?
The hardest question for anyone who grew up doing what was expected. Separate what you want from what you should want.
Why do I care so much what people think of me?
Caring isn't the problem; being steered by it is. Start by checking which of those judgements were ever actually made.
Am I playing someone I'm not?
Wearing different faces for different people is normal. The question is which one won't come off anymore.
Why am I so hard on myself?
Being tough on yourself isn't the same as having standards. Look at whose ruler it is, and what it measures.
Should I live the way my parents expect?
Comply and you resent it; refuse and you feel guilty. It's rarely either-or — it's about a distance both sides can live with.
Do I fix this relationship or end it?
Not deciding is also a decision, usually the expensive one.